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03-17-2009, 02:46 PM
No subject intrigues me more than SEX. From a virgin’s idyllic concept of intimacy to an extreme individual’s craving for their fetish(es). The classic society’s norms to the kinkiness in your fantasies, down to the dirtiest taboo fetish you ache to release. Many guard it secretly, for fear of ridicule, trapping themselves into isolation.
The root of conventional sex play vs. the avant-garde desires of temptation leads me to this inquiry.
Is anyone truly Vanilla?
In the bondage world, a little roping, some leather straps, a set of steel handcuffs, hell even household seran wrap can start off a wickedly wonderful session. The visual alone sets off a sub missive’s mind. The restraint oozes foreplay, and the anticipation of what will happen next. As the knots form, the leather tightens, the cuffs click, the clingy film seals your powerlessness, its the trust, the respect, the acceptance of our partners cravings that lead the acts to a euphoric ride, such as a roller coasters peaks and lulls.
In straight sex, its equally done. Aaaahh you say, how is that? Well, tell me, have you ever held a partners hands tightly above their heads or forcefully held them to their sides in the moment of ecstasy? Grant it there was no visible hardware. No words were expressed before hand, no prelude to this act. Your partner trusts, respects and accepts those interlocking fingers. An intense orgasm. Best sex ever! Yet with no communication you will ever know what the norms are?
So the question I ask … Is anyone truly Vanilla?
The root of conventional sex play vs. the avant-garde desires of temptation leads me to this inquiry.
Is anyone truly Vanilla?
In the bondage world, a little roping, some leather straps, a set of steel handcuffs, hell even household seran wrap can start off a wickedly wonderful session. The visual alone sets off a sub missive’s mind. The restraint oozes foreplay, and the anticipation of what will happen next. As the knots form, the leather tightens, the cuffs click, the clingy film seals your powerlessness, its the trust, the respect, the acceptance of our partners cravings that lead the acts to a euphoric ride, such as a roller coasters peaks and lulls.
In straight sex, its equally done. Aaaahh you say, how is that? Well, tell me, have you ever held a partners hands tightly above their heads or forcefully held them to their sides in the moment of ecstasy? Grant it there was no visible hardware. No words were expressed before hand, no prelude to this act. Your partner trusts, respects and accepts those interlocking fingers. An intense orgasm. Best sex ever! Yet with no communication you will ever know what the norms are?
So the question I ask … Is anyone truly Vanilla?